Saturday, January 28, 2012

the break of 2011

                                                     the wrist having a glass of wine on nye

so heres the story of how i shattered my wrist:

it was a cold dreary morning on december 22, 2011 and i was in the kitchen trying to clean up after kball when i just freakishly slipped (i was walking really fast with just socks on). it happened so fast, i dont even know how i fell in order to land completely on my wrist, but thats what happened. jake was walking about the door and luckily he saw/heard me fall and keya saw it too. she started screaming hysterically (that was so sad and depressing) and jake ran over to me. i knew right away something was wrong but i was just trying to hold keya and comfort her while inside i was in an unbelievable amount of pain. jake cancelled his appt, ran upstairs to put keya down for a nap, so i could figure out what was going on. i knew i had to go to the ER because i had broken both of my hands before and knew the drill. i tried to put on some clothes, ended up just leaving on my pajamas, and started driving to the hospital. i made it about a half a mile and was still in my neighborhood and i knew i couldnt drive anymore. i was starting to shake from the pain and then i saw my neighbor barb driving towards me. her white car was like an angel singing to me, and i unrolled the window and just started crying and told her to take me to the ER. so we went to the ER and i quickly found out that i didnt just have a simple break, but i had shattered my wrist and i needed emergency surgery otherwise i wouldnt have any blood flowing to the broken bone and it would die. i FREAKED out because a)i have a kid b)what the hell c)what am i gonna do d)i cant believe this is happening e)i am so scared of having surgery. the only other time ive had surgery was when i had a c-section. i called my friend jessica, whos husband is an ortho surgeon who specializes in hands, to get a second opinion. james, or dr foley rather, called me right away and pulled some strings and was able to be my surgeon. that was awesome and made me feel so much better. i didnt get pain killers for 7 hours though and i was miserable and alone and lonely in the hospital and i must say the aurora hospital in summit has the WORST STAFF EVER in their emergency room. THE WORST. otherwise, its a really nice hospital with a really yummy cafeteria (my main priority of course) but seriously i dont think they treated me very nicely especially for being completely empty.

anywho i had the 2 hour surgery that night, told all the nurses on staff all of jakes christmas presents while i was coming out of my anesthesia. i was actually in a real good mood, holler drugs! my parents drove in the very next day and we ended up spending christmas and new years with my parents and my in laws. lets just say keya was a very happy, excited, and lucky girl! my sister and ryan flew in for new years too so it ended up being a lot of fun and after 3 weeks of being taken care of here, my mom, k, and i flew back to columbus for two weeks.  it was nice relaxing there and i even got to see lekha and saanvi a ton, which was so fun. we just got back to wisconsin last weekend and things are starting to get better. my hand is improving tremendously each day, and while i still cant pick up keya or change diapers OR drive, i can do other things that i wasnt able to do for a month. its so nice. we have been so lucky to have both sets of our parents to help out so much. i really dont know what we would have done otherwise. it would have been a total nightmare.  its also been nice for keya to spend some good quality time with her grandparents, and that was the best thing to happen out of this little mishap. blessings always come in disguise!

Friday, January 27, 2012

family pictures

we had professional pictures taken of us over thanksgiving by an old friend from high school, natalie metzger and her husband matt. they take amazing pictures and we shot these in tartan fields right near my parents house.  i thought they turned out great and you might recognize a couple from our christmas card!



















Sunday, January 22, 2012

uncle richard comes to visit



uncle richard came to visit in the beginning of december to kick off the holiday season.  we had a grand lunch at cafe benelux in which we dined on a split hodge podge (our efforts to be on a diet - the splitting of a meal), drank red wine, eaten salami rolls, eaten pizza, eaten cake balls, eaten bacon cheese, listened to holiday music, watched one episode of lost, and had a fantastic breakfast buffet at an old school country club aka silver spring. kcar and richard had a mutual fear/respect of each other and got along famously.   richard attempted to hold her, she forced him to have a tea party, and they both stared at each other for a while.  a successful visit indeed.

tea party!!

pre break aka ge slumber party

i dont know where my inappropriate pictures from this crazy sleepover are, but here are the pg pictures. neha, andy, brad, gaby, and marcia came up for a not so annual slumber party at our house. it was a blast - we all wore ugly christmas pajamas, played a ton of taboo, ate some ponzarattas (sp?) from jimmys grotto, the boys drank russian moonshine and farted..a lot, and we all exchanged fun presents. k was part of the festivities until 6pm and then she made her entrance again at 8am the next morning.  i love when these guys come over!



 my two cute santas
 uncle b and kball...she looks unhappy but she was flirting with uncle bubs the entire time
 the presents!
 round table gift opening



 moonshine and farting
uncle andy and k...nice hair keya.



the worst.

since everyone hates me for not blogging over the last month (EXCUSE ME FOR BREAKING MY WRIST AND NOT BEING ABLE TO DO NORMAL THINGS LIKE WASH MY HAIR GOD HELP YOU ALL), i thought i would post the most unflattering picture of me ever. like. ever. seriously. i cant stop staring at it, bc its so bad. 


in my defense, i am wearing a mens xxl ohio state sweatshirt that my mom bought for jake when we got engaged because she thought all american boys were giants. clearly he never wore it but it came in handy bc it was the only thing that i could fit my bandaged arm through (we still had to cut the sleeve). secondly, i just had surgery and was still taking painkillers and was all drugged out. the pants, well..theres nothing we can do about that. and lastly, im sitting on a miniature dining room chair. its not an adult chair, i swear. its a keya sized chair. and its not broken. so im not actually 9305840584lbs. the picture is deceiving. BELIEVE ME.

thats all folks. story of mentioned broken wrist and our exciting chaotic family filled month is coming soon...